“I can't pay” doesn't have to end the conversation.
It can turn the job into a favor. But favors are hard to ask for twice. You can say “I owe you one.” That has no unit, no deadline and no record. Nobody else can collect it, and each of you remembers it differently.
Here that “I owe you one” gets written down, with a unit and a deadline, and the whole pool looks after it.